Wow! It has been a while since I have updated my “Blink of Moment” blog. Well, needless to say, if you have been following my Hughes’ Troop journey through Facebook, a lot has changed since my last post. There have been many painful times dealing with my cancer, fatigue, kidney stones, divorce, inability to work full time hours, etc…. However these tough times become less overwhelming thanks to all of your collective efforts, belief in me, and overall enthusiasm helping me make the best out of any unexpected situations. I can’t possibly imagine how I would survive these constant beatdowns if it wasn’t for the continual encouragement from every single one of you, the services that have been offered to me for free in order to help me transition into my ever-evolving life, and the donations that have been raised to help me with the mountain of medical debt. Not to mention, my most recent and welcomed surprise and gift… a trip to Disneyland with my 3 boys thanks to your generous donations and the determination of one special Facebook friend (Crystal Mills). More on this with on my next blog post
So what should I focus my long-overdue blog post on today? Well, I am going to focus on the things that I am most empowered by in my life today- the people who have made a tremendous difference in my journey thus far.
I have been incredibly fatigued lately and sometimes it is so bad that I go home around 1pm and sleep straight through until 10 or 11am the following day. This fatigue is an unforgivable force, and in order to avoid getting any sicker, I often times must succumb and allow myself to sleep these longer hours. Unfortunately, this means that other things in my life have taken a back seat. I still am a loan officer and I have clients and referral partners that rely on our company to provide excellent service when it comes to financing a home (Referrals are still greatly welcomed). This is where the years of putting together an all-star team really has come back to reward me, my clients, and certainly my entire office. I really want to thank Annie Gulosh, Mikal Mele, Janna Barney, and the whole Northwest Mortgage Advisors team for stepping up big time to fill in for me in my absence. So much of my role has changed in the business, compared to just a short year ago, but without my team and referral partners working diligently to back me up, I’m lucky to have any income at all. You honestly could not find a better group of loan officers and support staff to rise up and help out in a time of need.
My parents… Roger and Colleen. They have gone above and beyond what it means to take care of a sick son. Being in a position of need really humbles your invincible attitude about your place in this world. My parents have always been exceptional, but there is no doubt that helping their oldest child navigate and possibly plan for the end of his life must take an unimaginable amount of mental strength. They consistently prove themselves to be invaluable to me, from helping me out with the smallest tasks like picking up a prescription, to monumental decisions regarding medical expenses or properly planning my estate to ensure my boys have enough money to get through college and beyond. Through their strength I find the power to keep pushing forward.

I love my puppy Rex. He has got a great personality! He is pretty mellow, and has about the cutest brown Golden Retriever eyes you have ever seen. And on the days when I am totally wiped, a few key friends have helped me with Rex, and I am very thankful for them. Nikki & Steve Atkinson & Tara Bohren were the first to volunteer to walk him for me once a week (I had countless offers from so many of you to help out- thank you!). And on top of that, a very good client and long time friend, Sharon & Jeremy Cram, who own Club K-9 (Portland and Tigard locations) agreed to help me out by watching Rex in their daycare or overnight boarding whenever it was needed. Rex absolutely loves it there, and last time, they even give him a nice bath to keep him clean and smelling good. This may seem small to each of you, but it has dramatically cut down on my stress levels on some of my really bad Chemo days. Please help support their business by using and referring out Club K-9… it is top notch. http://clubk-9.com/
There are so many more of you I could highlight for your generosity and compassion… Lisa Nishioka, Ginger Bell, Lisa Hunt, Linda Christian, Cliff Brady, Dennis Van Dyke, Jessica Sansone, Cindy Ertman, Staci Carr, Sue Woodard, Brian Stevens, Misti Cowart, Debbie Barnett, Stephanie Hughes, my favorite waitresses at those key restaurants that I always visit… and sooooooooo many more!!
It seems like no matter where we look there is some sort of turmoil, whether it be divorce, cancer, financial troubles, or something else, is touching us or someone we care deeply about these days. My hope is that by passionately and transparently sharing my story with each of you, that, when and if life does rock your world and sets you on your own unique adventure, that you will choose and focus on all the positive things that very well could come out of the experience. The thing about dealing with severe issues and our own futures is that it is up to us to shape what it looks like. You can focus on all the hardships (and who would blame you) or you can learn to seize the moment and focus on how you can live your life to the fullest and maximize the positive imprint you will leave once your time here is up.
Have an inspired day. Keep Fighting Forward!!


















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